For the receiver who likes to be in control or want to try something new, Eve's Ecstasy is a great oral sex position. The performer lies down with their head hanging over the edge of the bed (couch, love seat, dock, etc...) and then the receiver then straddles their partner's face.
By varying the way you are sitting on your partner you can control the amount of stimulation and access, just make sure not to put too much stress on your partner's neck.
